If you are multicultural - you already are privileged ✨

First strength we do have is to understand other mentalities, cultures, behaviours.

Communicating everyday with different people keeps enthusiasm alive, because understanding and learning to accept differences is a huge enrichment that will lead you onto success.

You already are privileged with this gift : Embrace it, use it, put it forward!

We all bring something to each other with our differences that push us to be unique, improve ourselves and think out of the box. You do not know it yet but you also are creative!

Accepting and learning to love differences, will automatically grow your motivation:

Learn how to be excited to learn something new about someone's story, behavior, see what it does make you feel. Through what you feel and accept, you heal and evolve!

Here is another thing that will empower you: Set-up intentions when you meet someone, not expectations.

Embracing difference enhances optimistic attitude, transforms your limited thoughts into a positive mindset.

You automatically set yourself for success when you open up your mind to multiple possibilities, options and truths.

You want the secret of accepting difference?

It is as simple as that : CREATE THE BOND.

HOW? Ask questions, show your interest. What is their life model? How did they grow up?

If you feel included, belonging to something bigger than just a common goal to make money - then you will be MOTIVATED. You will be EMPOWERED. When you offer your colleagues the space to be themselves - you will allow yourself to be YOU.

Do that exercise of neutrality, in discovering the values of people you do business with.

What matters to them and what is important to them might not be your cup of tea, but you will find out how to collaborate together.

The most intelligent person is the one that makes that step. Shows compassion and flexibility. Creates an experience people will not forget.

At the end of the day: "People will forget what you did, but they will never forget how you MADE THEM FEEL".

The revenue you will bring to the company will always be an ephemeral success and short feeling of achievement. Yes indeed work pays off - it will certainly lead you to promotions and recognition. Great. Nobody remembers that in the long term.

People will remember the experience they had with you, the way they felt good and safe within your non judgmental energy. They will open-up, be authentic and the more they will be authentic the more you will also be able to show the best of you, without fears of being judged.

Acting and deciding only with the heart and not being lead by your ego - within the most egocentric industries and organizations is EMPOWERMENT.

START WITH YOU, make the difference, make the choice of contributing to a wider impact in the company you are working for, by "simply" being yourself.

You will see the change in your environment once you will realize your environment is the reflection of who you are.

Let's play now !

Challenge of the day: Go and have an open- heart conversation with the person you judge the most inside you. Remember to think very loud about an intention, not an expectation. You might not agree how that person acts or treats other people.

That is totally fine. Do that exercise for you, because what triggers you the most does mirror something you must see and accept within you. Discover her/his - how and why?

What is it that you have in common if you silence your ego and your projections?

How best could you collaborate to succeed with these differences?

Meditate and see what you feel after this conversation.

Heads-up : if after doing that exercise - you still see no change from this person, then do not over adapt or over try. Sometimes it is just not a match and that is okay. Sometimes you are not in the right environment for you and depending on what you decide to accept or not - take an action. Do not stay still if you are unhappy. The problem are never really other but you not being in alignment where you are :)

I repeat - the others are not your problem - you are your problem and your solution...

Every time you let your mental judge - you love yourself less. Judgement is fear, and a constant search of self-love that you only can find within you. Only you can make you feel good about yourself in focusing on you. Not in judging others. Always keep in mind the UTILITY rather than THE TRUTH, your truth, to create as much as much healthy relationships as possible.

Ask yourself: Is the way I am thinking and feeling about this person useful? Does it help me feel better or nurture anything good? What does it mirror inside me if it is not good?

Accept, let-go and focus on the ones that bring out the BEST OF YOU.

Moods of Jo🌙

@ehfarlife

See these trees? They are different. Separately they would not have the same result they have here - merging together creating that special and unique beauty, together.

Looking forward to reading your comments 💌

xoxo,

Moods of Jo 🌙