How to become tougher 💎

Never underestimate the power of mistakes.

Pic from my solo trip in the wild Atlantic way - Ireland, Spring 2021.

The world is a challenging place to navigate. But, like wildflowers, we must bloom and show off our beauty and strength, no matter what.

Tough means learning, understanding and applying what’s good for you or not, making adjustments and moving on. Redirecting your energy towards what's to come, not on what's been done and is not working. Everything happens for a reason!

• Looking at your interactions with people and making sure that it is reciprocal and balanced.

• Being conservative with your energy is investing in yourself to be able to distribute it better, healthier and at the right places, with the right people.

• How to know ? Connect to what feels right to you.

  
  

Have you read the book : “the myth of normal”?

Tough does not mean holding on.

Holding on, to what feels draining is called sacrifice.

It’s betraying ourselves. It’s abandoning our whole being.

It’s time for self-care and for contributing to something bigger than our ego centric world.

It’s time to shine, you crazy diamond.

And it all starts with mistakes.

Walk through that fire and reset 🔥

How will you cultivate your energy this year ?

To what & to whom will you dedicate more attention ?

Pay attention to what brings the best out of you.

Pay attention to whom drains the hell out of you and block the access for good.

Make that difficult choice.

Tough times depend on you making them last.

Or choosing instead to become tougher ☄️

Choosing instead to shine. 💎

Choosing instead that source of light after the pressure instead of staying where you are at in the dark.

At some some point - it’s your choice to decide how long will you take to dare shining !

Problems need energy to survive.

Without these mistakes, without this darkness you would not be able to shine.

But you decide on the timing, you decide to, or to not to.

You decide when it’s time to shine ✨

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#shineonyoucrazydiamond

1. Love a good challenge

2. Practice true commitment

3. Focus on what is in their control

4. Understand the importance of emotional intelligence

5. Show true confidence

6. Embrace change

7. Know that fear only leads to regret

Start with you