Forgive, for what ? 🌕

Every Full moon is a good time to forgive & release, in particular with one like this.

Let go of what no longer serves you. If you are clinging on to someone or something that you know is toxic in your life but that you are continuing with (most likely for all the wrong reasons), take a hint from the skies ans let them or it go.

Releasing what no longer serves you voluntarily - is much easier, than having life rip it away. #thepoweroflettinggo

I decided, spontaneously, that I wanted to follow-up with my previous post today on "How to embrace the unknown" but taking the opportunity of this very emotional Full Moon in Taurus to share with you an important message, that is associated to what I've posted earlier today.

There is nothing more important when manifesting, than emptying out all your negativity. And for this, I would like to give you the opportunity to do so, using this eclipse to banish any toxic emotion.

-> List what you want to release and forgive on a piece of paper and burn the paper 🔥

- "Yeah, but WHY forgiving" ? You might think - "What if I do not want to" ?

That's completely fine as well, especially if you are not ready so it is important to not force anything - but - if you feel you really want to, but just can't figure out how and why, then keep reading 😊

It is a very important message to my heart I wanna share here because - I've been very resentful my entire life and was an expert on holding on a grudge. 😂

I was so resentful, that, is was draining my energy non-stop - leaving me exhausted, with so many negative emotions at the end of the day.

I had no clue most part of the time, why I was always so upset & never satisfied.

Truth is, I just could not make peace with my past, forgive & release.

So I was always bringing, past unresolved inner-issues, back to my present - to continue playing the drama queen, of that dramatic story of mine that I could not accept.

I felt I did not grow up in an environment that was stable, nor safe or surrounded by LOVE.

So, I re created that reality for years in my adult life, in replaying these same scenarios with my closed ones. Especially my love partners. I was unable to accept to be loved, nor to love in a healthy way. And I was always attracting partners that would make me re confirm, that story of " how unworthy for love" I felt, I was.

I felt I did not have friends that were good for me neither, when I was not myself. Because, from the start - they only saw the role I was playing to please - not the real me. And it was actually not a match of values and personalities. So, conflicts were inevitable too.

Important to mention that - I am not saying : they were the bad guys or I was the good person in the story - nope! I am just saying, not everyone is meant for you. So, it is CRUCIAL to know your worth, by discovering who you really are, in your fullest version and show it, as it is.

When you meet someone, apply the " Take it, or leave it". Do not hide, do not try to force something that's does not feel natural :

There are people that will come a teach you lessons, other with whom you'll discovers others parts of yourself you did not suspect, others will be there to make you live an amazing adventure but not we the right fit to share with you more profound bond, some others will just feel like home. And you'll feel it straight away. They might not stay forever, but they will bring you to another level.

The memories you make with people that make you feel yourself, feel free, strong, beautiful and that will always reveal, naturally, without any effort; the best of you - is priceless gift.

And any loss you experience for speaking your truth - is not a loss, it is alignment.

No luxury item, no house, no expensive car will replace the pure happiness of being well surrounded.

Go find yourself, make some space - and you'll find your people :

"Surround yourself with people that push you to do better.

No drama or negativity.

Just higher goals & higher motivation.

Good times & positive energy.

No jealousy or hate.

Simply bringing out the absolute best from each other".

So now, let me share with you how forgiving and releasing changed my life for its best 🌹

Forgiving and letting go, will bring you the SPACE to :

- Happiness of having only people with good intentions around you.

- Peace, of having people that do not take your generosity, kindness and sincerity as a weakness nor for granted.

- Your people. These people are the ones that will not step up on you, take advantage of you or betray you in the most vulnerable moments.

- Your people, will bring out the BEST OF YOU. You'll feel naturally safe and inspired to be a better person to them, because they do you JUST GOOD and make you feel good about yourself and empowered to be a better version of yourself.

There is place for apology and you are allowed to step - out from the victim role.

It is your choice, whenever you are ready; nobody will tell you how to do it or what to do.

The most precious gift I have today; is to be well surrounded and oh, it took me years to realize, I was not loved for me but for the mask I was wearing in order to be loved and accepted. Of course, it only attracted the opposite of love, no wonder.

Always remember; no person (friend, family, lover) has the right to make you feel like betraying yourself, in the name of loyalty.

Most importantly, when being loyal; asks you to betray yourself and your values....

When someone or a situation makes you actually feel miserable, go away with no regrets. Turn the page. Close the book. Have no regrets dear, because who is meant for you - will never put you in such position of self - "désamour".

People that love you for who you are, will not try to change you, will not manipulate you, nor lie to you. They will not make you uncomfortable in being yourself -you will not have to wear a mask, to feel appreciated.

Before you starting doubting; let me tell you, you do not need proof, believe me, deep inside, you knew... you know the truth. Listen to your gut ! I have made another post about intuition (on my FR blog) btw. Feel free to check it and to let me know how you know? :)

I repeat : There is place for apology but you are allowed to step up from the victim role.

It is your choice, whenever you are ready; nobody will tell you how to do it or what to do.

-> You will do it sooner or later, perhaps when the red-flag will hit you so hard that you will not be able to refute the evidence anymore.

Save energy and time. Step-out before. With peace and compassion.

I will not lie, I still am learning to cultivate compassion instead of deception in my heart even when I feel the most fooled. Life is work in progress.

Inner-love is an endless work in progress but oh, the most beautiful gift I am offering to myself. The peace of being in alignment with who I am.

The most powerful decision I took is changing environment; changing environment changes your thoughts.

I move, I improve. I move on.

I take less time making a decision, but decide myself less impulsively let's say ahah ( beside for spontaneous adventures of course) and the difference now is when I do take that difficult decision, if it is for my highest good - there is no f way of turning back.

Follow your gut, it is NEVER wrong.

Breath - close your eyes.... think of that decision.

Do you have the answer? Good.

Now go. Do not hold onto revenge, material, money, making yourself look like the " good person".

Repeat to yourself: "NOBLESSE OBLIGE" as we say in French and go.

Always remember that, only the richness of the knowledge & the heart will matter at the end.

By releasing - better things meant for you will come to you naturally :) I promise !

Now I do have a question for you :

Do you know how to differentiate your intuition from your projections?

If yes, how do your differentiate them?

What keeps you from making decisions?

What keeps you in doubt?

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Thanks for reading me and see you soon on your empowered new life with @ehfarlife,

Looking forward to reading your comments 💌

xoxo,

Moods of Jo 🌙