How do I work? ✨

Many of you asked me to share more when it comes to my business mindset and how I am experimenting the entrepreneurial path :)

There you goooo !

I've been posting a lot in French actually on my French blog because I always write intuitively and inspiration mainly came in that language lately. Probably also because I am in the country 🇫🇷 🧀🍷 and also, I wanted to communicate that I also do coaching in French! :)) I mainly do in English but please FR speakers come in ahah

Although, if you have some English would help for some exercices I send as homework.

I have received many comments of people not daring to ask me for coaching because they think I do not do French.... whereas it is my first language (well, not really but this is another story ahah).

Of course you can easily tell I am not originally from an English speaking country when you read me. It is not perfect, but I am doing what I love, and the messages I have to share are way more important. My desire to contribute internationally takes over my fear of putting myself out there.

And this is because - I find purpose in doing this, it gives me energy, it is healing as well. Helping people as a coach internationally, makes me get up earlier than ever and go to sleep at 2am sometimes, because I just cannot stop. I love what I do. And that's a feeling I wish to EVERY SINGLE PERSON ALL AROUND THE WORLD 🌍. This is why, I get stubborn and continue in English mainly. I want to impact as many lives as possible, I want to help you transform your life in helping you discover yourself at your fullest in order to be able to take conscious decisions that empower you towards that life you've always wanted to live deep inside.

I am not saying that it's going to be perfect, I am not saying you're gonna live happily forever afterwards thanks to coaching 😂.

What I can promise though, is that exploring yourself, travelling inside of you... is one of the best adventures you will be experimenting - because it will bring you confidence and PEACE in your decision making.

My mission is to help your HEAL your wounds & REVEAL all these treasures you have inside of you - transform challenges into strengths and bring them ALIVE into projects. 🛫

I want you to dare to take-off too :) and.. what I can promise you too, is that it will not be as scary nor as complicated than you think. IF you are really motivated to bring that change into life.

Soooo - back to the topic - How do I work so much all the time?

Forgetting completely about my social life, partying, I even forget about eating 😅 because I am soooo in the moment, every single moment I am doing something that makes sens to me...

I cannot get myself to sleep, I am too excited for it and it is not because of coffee - it is my inner sparkle that does not want to shut down anymore 🤣 🌞 now that I found it ...

It is actually like falling in love. But with a purpose ahah and that purpose that is made for you just makes you LOVE LIFE and love yourself.

That's what nourishes me actually, what keeps me awake, what makes me forget about time... while being all the long so energized. It is that PURPOSE that defines the way you work, the energy you have, the choices you make according to your energy - and will contribute as well to the development of your character, as we like saying with a good friend of mine :) It impacts as well the way we interact with others.

I was personally all the time grumpy when I was not doing jobs that made no sense to me or when I was surrounded by people not meant for me...

- I don’t have weekends, because I don’t have weeks anymore.

- I have days I work, and days I don’t. (even if it did not happen yet but I am about to force myself to make a little break before starting coaching new clients).

- I have mornings I work, afternoons I do nothing because I am more inspired early mornings and late nights.

- I have whole days of fun and evenings of work till 2am. Where my friend from Australia needs to remind me to go to sleep. 🤣 ( hugs to you, my Delphine).

I do whatever the f I want. And that aligns with my value number 1 : FREEDOM 🔥

What are your values? Do you know how to find them out? My previous posts here might help as well. Feel free to have a look if you are interested and leave me a comment with your values 😍

I would like also like-minded people to meet up through the #EHFARMOVEMENT :) really, this is my dream, because I know lots of us struggle so much in not being able to connect with the right people that help you as well love yourself at your fullest. People that are just GOOD FOR YOUR SOUL. I want to help you find them - like I did 🤗 ( and oh took me AGES of suffering, the ones that know, know 🤣. Well I want to make you avoid loosing all this time, even if it is not really lost at the end, always teaches you something. Brings you straight back to that self-discovery, naturally, but more painfully, lol.

Re- alignement never happens in peace anyways but we can navigate through it with more ease and respond to it, instead of resisting it.

I wish you all to find these amazing people that will bring out the fullest and most beautiful versions of yourself naturally. That's the best thing in life. ( at least to me)

- What would be the best thing in life for you? What are things that really do matter to you to feel at peace? Same, let me know via comments or come and reach out info@ehfarlife.com I always do reply :)

There are mornings when I get up lazy, and when that happens, I can spend the day doing nothing or in front of Netflix.

Only thing is - this kind of lazy days... happen VERY rarely now whereas, when I was an account manager all I could think of, and even dream of... were these kind of lazy days.

Also, I was every single day waiting for Friday night to get out of that "box" I was suffocating from and party, and drink and forget how useless I felt at the end of the day.

That emptiness was unbearable. So I was trying to shut it down.

So yeah these days do not happen that often anymore because I do what I love, what I am good at ... -> well not 100% of the time of course, I hate admin like everyone and am the WORSE web designer and have no patience nor am good at social media 🤣 and more than anything, I do something that really makes me feel I am doing something good to change the world, with humility of course and at my scale.

Before, when I still had a «normal» job, it was a f hell to get up in the morning, a fight with myself.

And I would clench my teeth all day thinking only when I was finally going home, or on the weekends, when I did not have to get up.

And, I saw my mom doing this her entire life. And that was a huge awakening to me, seeing her, as she says today : " succeeding in life but not her life ".

And, the realization of not being able to help the person I love the most and would like to help the most - broke my heart.

It is always like this and also, it takes 2 to tango and again, everything happens for a reason...

So, I decided to make it my mission to avoid this to happen to as many people as I can.

Entrepreneurs who manage to create a tailor-made life have the opportunity to choose their schedules, their working days, their rest weeks.

But beware, this possibility of doing what I want when I want began with the choice I made to work very hard to get there.

-> I MADE that time to work on me, on my skills, my beliefs, my patterns and blockers to understand myself and by this understanding, uncover what I did not want to see for years about me and my choices and all the dramas.

-> All this introspection, and solo trips helped me reveal my passions and strengths and how to use them to create the life I want.

It didn’t come out of the blue and I am far from being where I want to be - but it is a work in progress, I am on the way...

E V E R Y S I N G L E D A Y 🌞

It is possible! And when we are surrounded by the right people 💛 that support you, believe in you, and bring out the best in you, no matter what - you can achieve ANYTHING.

You are one step away from that decision to me made, one action away, one date away. 💫

Moods of Jo🌙

@ehfarlife

START WITH YOU.

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I almost decided to move in to Algarve, for my digital nomad life but realized that, it was more suitable for the summer season. Are there digital nomads that work from Algarve? If so, what is your experience. Where is your ideal digital nomad place?

Looking forward to reading you on the comments or on my email address info@ehfarlife.com ✈

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